Single moms have different difficulties in their lives. They have to manage their household, take care of their child or children and find jobs. These can be hard for themselves especially when kids are still small. No matter how one’s life can be busy, one can still make it in life and life happily. There are those who wait for the circumstances to change for them to exercise their dreams. And they are those who fight until they change the circumstances and create their space. It is likely impossible that circumstances themselves will change to give you a favor. But it is likely that if you take positive actions today, you will influence your circumstances and have a better future. In fact, if you do not take action for a better life and a bright future that you want, then your situation will become even harder than it was before. Yes, there are those challenges and circumstances that are standing in your way. They are trying to block you. You need to know that inside you that is strength and power that can enable you to push the boundaries and limitations in your life. Get to read the biography stories of the people who are considered mentors and wealthy ones in different societies, for example. You will find that they have encountered life’s most difficult experiences. That you have not inspired them fear or depression or forsaking their dreams. These people did not lose courage. In fact, life’s most difficult experiences are like the crucibles in which your internal power and character are manufactured. In other words, your difficult situations are the opportunity for you to grow and become an example to the people you live with and the entire world.
In the case of black and single moms, that is still very possible. The process starts with working on yourself. Take time and think about the way you live and the way you perceive things. You will find that there are many things you will have to change. Perhaps, there are people that you condemn because they gave you promises and could not fulfill them. As a result, that has resulted in misfortunes in our life! You can leave your past and its pain behind and take control of your future. You should believe that you have what it takes to live a kind of life you want and deserve. You can choose to change all the negative and idle habits that you have which keep you from making progress in life. Some people drink too much such that when they get to work, they suffer a hangover. They cannot stay in a certain position because of that bad habit which affects their performance. They are other people who spend their time on TV which movies and shows. Time is very precious. Everything is possible within the time. And after time nothing is possible. That is why one must learn how to manage time. You should use your time to do things that matter most and not things that matter least. Because the least activities result in poverty or average, on the other hand, most valuable activities result in excellence and dignity. So, choose what is best for you.